The Human Touch

Ever since Diwali (India’s “Festival of Lights”), the kids at Handmaids of Blessed Trinity were kept busy with various extra curricular activities and the holiday season festivities.  As a result, our visits the last few months were less frequent.

I was so excited to see them after what seemed like a long time.  I stepped into the library, selected the book “Mr. Cheerful” from the little Miss & Mr. series, and was about to select another one when the girls from HBT barged into their little library. The next ten minutes seemed like a typhoon just hit the bookshelves! The kids were frantically jumping over each other, trying to get to the books they wanted to read (or be read to).  Pulling and pushing and a fair amount of acrobatics kept me rooted to my spot! I cautioned, warned, and scolded them lest they hurt themselves. The girls calmed down after each one of them had at least three books in their hands.  They finally settled down to turn the pages and imagine the storyline.

I just sat and watched their expressions. While some pictures made them smile, others made them laugh, and still others left them confused and bewildered.  I was happy they missed the books and our sessions.

Gradually, they looked up and acknowledged my presence.  It was then I began to read. They managed to sit through the story, but as soon as I finished, the floodgates opened! Each one wanted to talk about something that had happened at home or in the various competitions at school while Little Ujjaini just sidled up close to me.

The girls had choreographed a dance and were super excited to perform it for me. Chairs were put away in a jiffy and the space was cleared for the dancers to make their entry! They chose a very popular song from a recent Hindi film called “Chikni Chameli” (or “item number” as we refer to it in Bollywood). Their little bodies began dancing while their lips moved in sync with the music and lyrics. I was astounded. Little Kajal danced in such earnestness that it was difficult to believe she was only five years old!

While all the girls huddled close together to watch them dance, Little Ujjaini quietly reached out and clasped my hand. She obviously had missed the human touch.

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Leaving a Mark

By Nikhil Kaweshwar, Guest Author.  Some incidents in the journey of life leave their mark so deep in your heart that they go with you to your grave.  It is rightly said that the feeling of satisfaction is the real earning of life.   Small incidents often leave deep imprints.  During one of my visits to Balgram, where we have a Bookwallah Library, one such incident has been stamped in my memory.

This incident occurred when another non-profit organization visited Balgram to arrange a fun filled day of competitions, events, chocolates, and gifts for the kids.  When we (Bookwallah volunteers) reached Balgram at our regular time, the kids spotted us and immediately ran up to us.  They were eager to show their gifts and wanted us to open them.  They insisted on sharing their chocolates and would not stop until we accepted.  This incident really stunned me. Even kids who have access to life’s many gifts will not easily share, but these kids who had so little were so keen to give what they had just received.   They were so immersed in our company that they did not go back to the fun and games that were being conducted by the other organization.  They wanted us to open the library to start our fun-filled reading session.

The children I’ve come to know get attached to those they love so easily.  Their search for us, their DIDIs and BHAIYAs, every weekend and their love and affection are indications of their pure heart.  While it may take time to see their academic progress, I realized on this particular day that our efforts were well worth it.  Because, ultimately life’s greatest gift, greatest treasure is knowing that what we are providing is something so simple and yet extraordinary.  It is knowing that we have the ability to touch hearts.

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A Very Merry Christmas at U.S. Consulate in Mumbai

A very special Christmas at the U.S. Consulate in Mumbai

With the season of giving upon us, it only meant more fun and gifts for the children of Handmaids of Blessed Trinity located in Sahar (Mumbai, India).   The U.S. Consulate in Mumbai and the U.S. Marine’s Toys for Tots Foundation, partnered with Bookwallah to host a very special Christmas for the children at the consulate.

A stately Christmas tree shone and sparkled at the consulate while the girls of Handmaids were served pizzas and cupcakes. The icing on the cake was a visit from Santa Claus- one who spoke in their language, Marathi!  Who knew Santa knew so many languages!  As Santa doled out gifts to each and every child, their eyes moved ever so quickly and joyously from toy to toy.  All of them had a tough time deciding which one to claim, but they left with loads of goodies and treats – happy hearts and wide smiles.

What stayed with me long after they left was the absolute ease and grace with which these kids handled all the attention. When stories were being read out to them by the U.S. Marines in their strong American accents, even Little Kajal listened so earnestly.  She could have fooled me into believing that she understood every single word!  I would like to think that she did it out of respect for her hosts.  Somewhere in her 4 year old heart, she realized that she was a lucky gal.  When posing for photographs, all the girls dressed in their Sunday best, were happily ready with their “cheesy” smiles.  They would have made delightful models for any ace photographer!  The piece de resistance came at the end of the afternoon after all the treats had been given and speeches delivered … a little dance performance by some of the kids!  This was their way of saying thanks to those who were giving them an opportunity to see what lies outside the four walls of their orphanage and allowing them to Dream & Hope.

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Thanksgiving at the U.S. Consulate in Mumbai

The children of Faith Children’s Home, an orphanage located on the outskirts of Mumbai in Badlapur, were in for a treat this Thanksgiving. The American Consulate had happily offered to organize a small “do” to celebrate the joy of giving.

On meeting with the coordinators of Faith on a hot Friday afternoon, we discovered that the kids had been super excited about making the 2 hour trip into a city where they could see buildings, traffic & other human beings!  Coming from a location where they hardly saw or heard anything other than the chirping of birds & croaking of frogs, and rushing water, the cacophony of city life beckoned them.

Walking into the cool interiors of the Consulate premises was a little daunting for them at first … One of the Bookwallah volunteers had to actually show the girls how to use the western toilet.  Only when she was satisfied with their role play did she allow them to use it!  Having had only a light breakfast before leaving their home (some kids suffer from extreme motion sickness), the kids were hungry & tired.

A small buffet had been laid out for them at the Consulate.  On the menu for the afternoon was a starter of a warm welcome served with a side of Thanksgiving potion. Main course comprised of an animated Charlie Brown cartoon which was accompanied with lots of laughter and delight. For dessert, the children got to indulge in the books and games/ toys on offer at the library. The servers (officials of the Consulate) were indulgent, warm & so sincere in their service that kids took second helpings at every course!

Watching the kids enjoying the simple pleasures of Life was a great feeling for us Bookwallah volunteers. We also hope the children of Faith noticed the world of opportunities that lies ahead for them.  Amen.

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“Siesta or Sharing the Gift of Imagination?” by Anuradha Ramachandran

For the last couple of years, I have been at a loose end with my free time when the kids were in school & the husband at work.

I indulged in most vices every home maker is entitled to – shopping, lunching, catching up with friends, watching movies …  but always felt I could do something more productive. Well, since no one was going to offer me a job where I could dictate my terms, I decided to do the noble thing and “Volunteer”.

To begin with, I had to give up my afternoon siesta (which was really difficult) and spend time with people who worked in NGOs conducting art, craft, dance and music classes. I have always enjoyed the fine arts as a spectator, but don’t possess any talents that I can share or teach. Sadly, that only made me more sleepy and cranky!  Unfortunately, most of the NGO co-ordinators had no clue what jobs to assign each volunteer which only made it more frustrating more for me. Eventually, I stopped going.

Things changed.  A couple of months ago, I met Shilpa Nambiar, who told me about Bookwallah Organization and the various areas I could help with.  I always loved books and the idea of spending time doing something I loved naturally really appealed to me. Reading books is like opening a window to an entirely new world ! It’s a world peopled by so many different characters, landscapes, feelings, emotions & thoughts that it is truly mind boggling.  For some, it is a great way to escape Reality while others find a Connection therein – it’s really amazing !

The first time I conducted a reading session at HBT (Handmaids of Blessed Trinity in Mumbai India), I didn’t know how many kids could read or even understand what was being read. I just kept reading to test the waters. The next time, I watched their blank expressions as I read stories of magic & wonder. To make it easy for them to understand, I started translating stories into Hindi. Thereafter, I found the kids more interested in picking out the stories I should read to them!  Gradually, I started calling them to sit next to me and read aloud to the rest. At this, their enthusiasm really peaked. Even the youngest kid, Rani, who is all of 3 yrs, claims she can read just so she can come sit at the head of the group & read aloud!

Nowadays, I catch myself planning what kind of books I should read to them ahead of time. I look forward to the Reading sessions in the hope that I may be able to infect them with a love for books. Since I have a set of boys who are fairly independent in most matters; they don’t need me to entertain them with story books. With these kids from HBT, I realize they need me as much as I need them to enjoy the simple joys of Life!

When I volunteered to spend time at the Bookwallah library once a week, I had not anticipated that it would get under my skin … but I’m happy that it has!  And, yes – I have learnt to overcome my dire need for a siesta as I make my way, armed with a large cuppa chai, every Thursday.

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The Case of Imagination

“If you want your children to be intelligent, read them fairy tales. If you want them to be more intelligent, read them more fairy tales.”  This quote was by one of the brightest human beings that ever existed- Albert Einstein.

During my Bookwallah journeys in emerging nations, it has been interesting to discover the number of people who do not truly understand the value of storybooks as Albert Einstein once did.  It has been even more interesting to discover that Bookwallah can potentially drive change in this belief.  “Fun books” can indeed help with emotional and intellectual intelligence.  Example, did you know that 15 minutes a day of independent reading can expose children to more than a million words of text in a year?

While I cannot claim to to be in the same realm as Albert Einstein, I can honestly say that those late nights of reading Gone with the Wind with my closet lights switched on, Beauty and the Beast, Nancy Drew, Harriet the Spy, and Phyllis Whitney mysteries helped me develop a strong talent for bringing “abstract ideas to life”- a skill I used for the past 15+ years in the corporate/start-up world.

I believe the global economic downtown and the recent passing away of great individuals such as Steve Jobs will move people to seek, to understand, and to “imagine” ways for better experiences.  Individuals will have to learn to innovate, create, and explore areas no one has dreamed of before.  Imagination is survival.  Sounds exciting doesn’t it?  So, spread the word and make imagination easy for the next generation.  You can either encourage children to spend time with their heads buried in textbooks and create a generation of average or share the gift of imagination and inspire them to be the next Richard Branson, Steve Jobs, Albert Einstein, Pramoedya Ananta Toer, President Obama, J.K. Rowling, Salman Rushdie, Oprah, or Sachin Tendulkar!  Lives created with an abundance of Imagination and a dose of Albert’s advice.

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